After taking this photo, I thought to myself, this really captures what I feel about the trip Took me long enough to write up this pos...

06
Oct
2018

Bhutan - a trip for dad :)

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After taking this photo, I thought to myself, this really captures what I feel about the trip

Took me long enough to write up this post - came back last Saturday but was reminiscing about the whole trip the past few days and completely stuck thinking about the wonderful place I just came back from. Lemme tell ya, when I woke up on the day that I was to return home, I felt like crying. I laid on my hotel bed feeling sad. I didn't know why, and I still cannot explain why. I guess I simply had an amazing time.

The title of the post also says it all, it was a very special trip because it was one with my dad and just my dad. I don't know if I've mentioned it here before but he wanted to go on a trip with each of his children to a place where he/she desired. I picked Bhutan, simply because it was the one place that I'd always alwaysss wanted to go to since my uni days. Even despite the high costs (250USD per day for visa), I was intrigued by the culture and heard plenty of good things about the country. We had planned to make this trip happen a year ago, and my dad prepared himself physically by building up his leg muscles - he had a knee replacement not too long ago in June last year - because there was a lot of hiking to do on the trip. I am sosososooo proud of him for making it all the way to the top of a mountain where a monastery was! So proud! He was even walking faster than me at one point, amazing.

So this trip is very much dedicated to him, and I'll remember it for a longgg time to come.


I'll post some photos highlighting the trip - there were so many beautiful sceneries, but I promise you I'll show you the best and only the best. I won't bore you with too many words, just a few nice photos and words to go along with them :)


FESTIVAL

Thimphu Tsechu - a Buddhist festival in the Bhutanese capital, Thimphu

Thousands of Bhutanese came in their finest ethnic wear to celebrate this festive Buddhist occasion.
I was told, almost the entire population believes in Buddhism, only a handful in Christianity and Hinduism, and one or two in Islam
Us too in pretty costumes, hehe :)
We felt really warm wearing it, great insulator.
Also, all those who dressed me up, asked if I had bought the costume, I shook my head and said it was my guide who loaned it to me. I asked why? They all told me "It's very expensive".
Well, we truly were royalty then bahah
And that's our guide Sonam! He lent his own traditional Gho to my dad, and his sister's Kira to me :)
He was there every step of the way for 9 days, also always armed with a smile.
Made some Bhutanese friends who told us all about the performances going on in front of me.
Duptho Zangmo is the name of the girl right beside me. Spoke english fluently - I found out they learn english at a young age just like us - from 5 years old onwards. I reckon they follow the Singapore system quite closely. She's got a lovely character as well, and we still keep in contact through Instagram ;) I was astonished by how they're all so well-versed in social media as well! The use of technology is slowly spreading across the country - considerably fast since they only started watching TV in the 90s!!



Made some cute baby friends too hehe


CAMPING

Camped overnight for one night among the mountains with the river flowing right next to us.
One of the major highlights of our trip :)
My dad was really happy here :)
So peaceful and quiet and... magical. I spotted a shooting star that night!

Toilet was 5-stars hahah.
But seriously I was expecting a hole in the ground, they actually set up a tent with a toiletbowl fwah, A-star standard.


Dinner on the left; Breakfast on the right
They were some pretty awesome meals I tell ya.

All of it, while being surrounded by this gorgeous landscape!!!


HIKING (loads of it)

... at simply one of the most beautiful places on earth....
spot the lady in the middle harvesting rice!!
happy_cool_dad
this was at one of the villages on the way from Thimphu to Punakha (Bhutan's former capital)
for someone living in the city, to see rows and rows of golden rice plantations was simply wonderful

Longest suspension bridge in Bhutan - about 200m long - is at Punakha.
Look at happy_dad once more haha

View from a hike to one of the temples at Punakha
Isn't this... just amazing. I really couldn't believe what was before my very eyes - it's a frakking oasis!
We were very lucky to see paddy fields full-on green.
Imagine if we were to come at a time when all the rice got harvested nuuuu

The view from up above....
Simply amazing. Simply Bhutan - haha that should be their tagline.


And are you ready for one of the most magical places......?

whyyy just look at thatttt aaaah!!!!!
Welcome to Phobjika Valley - somewhere with way higher altitude, therefore thick jackets













the valley was crazy beautiful and mystical even though it was the only place that didn't give us blue skies
gave it an added magical touch :)


And guess what we stumbled upon?
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a pretty buckwheat field!!

*heart eyes emojis*
yup. we were that ecstatic
hahahh


Us fooling around with the lichens.
They're hanging on trees everywhere, and I was told, they're bioindicators of a healthy forest.

There was one more place that we hiked - Taktsang monastery, also known as Tiger's Nest - and I'll leave it as the last place to show you later on in the post.


FORTRESS

Spirited Away much?
It's the Dzong architecture that you see in many of Bhutan's important buildings. This is the Punakha fortress where the country's five kings were coronated. Each city has a fortress, but to me, this was by far, the most majestic and it literally took.. my breath away :')
I really loved the sight of it
Even inside, it was beautiful architecturally
And a kind of stillness and quiet surrounded the compound
Our guide was also surprised by how we were the only ones in the fortress at that point of time - I believe it's usually teeming with tourists

PICNIC LUNCH

happy_cool_dad having one of the best picnics - he literally felt like he could die already
I kid you not, there was one time I woke up to check if my dad was still alive hahahahah cuz he was seriously super happy?????



I too, was super happy.

WE were super super happy...
Just imagine being surrounded by this wonder every single day?! 


MARIJUANA 


Don't you think it's crazy that we found marijuana alongside the road???
I literally just came out of a toilet before my guide showed it to me. I waz like whuuut????

who'd have known! i'd have walked right past it i tell ya
i hope bhutanese youth won't succumb to this drug. i really hope not.

CYCLING (every damn day)

What made it extra awesome was being able to cycle in every city of Bhutan, and taking in the sights and sounds slowly... instead of sitting idly in a car and watching everything go by quickly.

Yes, cycling was really tough - steep uphill climbs, undulating hills, and rough terrains - but I had a great time seeing the mountains, trees, valleys right before me and breathing in the crisp air. I would do it all over again in a heart beat.

It was extra fun for me because of my guide who has extraordinary amounts of energy, I swear to God I dunno how he musters that much in him to exert himself this much. There were days when we'd cycle to a monastary, do a 2-hour hike up, then cycle back to our hotel. It's insane!!!!

But then, the scenery is also insane, so here goes~

Thimphu 
At Thimphu - this was especially hard for me because I hadn't acclimatised to their altitude yet so the air was thin and breathing was heavy




I even got to experience some everyday local life when Sonam stopped to buy some vegetables -
something my dad couldn't experience. He dared not risk biking cuz if he fell, it'll be real bad...


Thimphu to Punakha
Downhill cycling all the way from one city to another~

It was a long and winding road, but hey, this view all the way through though....



Punakha 
:')
My favourite place in Bhutan
Shagged, tired, happy, full -
all together into one, that's how I felt


.... where the cows were also super happy

can't stop loving this place
my dad and i agreed that everywhere we looked was a photo opportunity
and i'd look at the view and constantly tell Sonam, pls let me take this back to Singapore hahah

Phobjika Valley
Woke up at 5am just for a morning cycle
hazy, but nonetheless, very pretty still :)

I always see these white flags all over the country and I was told they represent the dead. When someone passes away, their family members would plant these into the ground to remember them.
I asked, so when do they get removed? Cos people die all the time and the whole place is gonna be filled with them. Apparently, once the flags get worn out, only then, they'll be removed. Prolly explains why there are sooo many of them around.



Paro
I knew this was gonna be my final bike ride... it was in the evening, one day before I was to leave.

i kept yelping omg, omg, my guide must've been like wtf is wrong with this woman?!
i simply could not stop taking photos...
or believe that this was before my very eyes :')

It's actually painful just looking at these photos man, haha. Too.. gorgeous, and many times while I was there, I could not believe that I was in the presence of such scenery.

Sonam admiring his own country - Man, I miss this dude so much
Although he tortured me every day by making me ride up steep hills, it was incredibly fun with him. He was like a brother to me, especially since he's the same age as my real life bro. I'd bicker with him every day, call him out, call him a monkey, call him a sore loser hahahah, while he would take unglamourous shots of me sleeping in the car with my mouth wide open. Instead of a stranger to me and my dad, he felt like family to us. Like a good nurturing bro, he'd look out for me and teach me new things every day - it was always interesting to listen to his perspective on things. Very refreshing to meet someone like him and I guess in a way, he made me miss having my own brother at home.

Oh Bhutan, please, take my heart already.

TIGER'S NEST MONASTERY (ultimate hike up on our final day)
THIS was the hike that my father was so afraid of doing. He was afraid he might have to stop somewhere along the way and get a hitch up by one of the horses.

Have a look at our journey up~ it was a formidable feat indeed - all 3,120m of it.



At this point, we were halfway there~
Gorgeous view and weather to accompany us
All throughout the trip, we were blessed with such skies.... so so thankful.
And there it was, Tiger's Nest in its full glory.
With the right amount of sunlight shining on it, so very beautiful indeed....
We definitely had to have a snap here :)
This was after three hours of walking :)
We then took a short tour around the monastery - no photos were allowed inside.

As we prepared to head down, dear Sonam hadn't had enough of it, he wanted to take me HIGHER. So while my dad rested and prepared to take the arduous journey back down, we walked up to another tiny temple that not everyone went to.


It was extra tiring as I walked up to this other temple, especially since I had already exerted myself earlier on. Started feeling hungry as well, but thankfully we had chocolates to save the day.


.... and we were rewarded with this view of a baby.........

i was sooooo fkin happy.
can you spot tiger's nest? yeap we saw its roof from up here.
hahahah look at my stupid face
we were literally the only two people up there, it was amazing and I thanked Sonam for taking me here.
I was beyond happy :')
lol what a poser

HOMESTAY DINNER

After a hotstone bath from our hike at Taktsang, we were brought to this family who whipped us a fantastic meal - our final one here in Bhutan.

Hahah cheers! They always serve rice wine, called Ara. I always have difficulty finishing it, it's really strong.
And yeap, my dad and I decided that we should don the traditional clothes again on our final night :)
THESE CUTIESSSSSS!!!!!! AH!!!!!

Girls are the best la, they know how to play along by doing these kissy faces haha, boys won't.

With the entire family :)

And then eventually, my dad and I parted ways with Sonam and our driver, Kencho
THIS was our lil family portrait :)

Then it was goodbye at their airport the next day~~
We kept waving goodbye as we parted ways... till the very end.
Oh and how could I forget... we were on the same flight as the King and Queen of Bhutan as we made our way back home. I know, it's super hard to believe but it's true. At the start of every announcement, the pilot would say "Your Majesty, Her Royal Highness, Ladies and Gentlemen...." Every passenger on board was ecstatic. I should've taken a photo of the red carpet being rolled out!!

That's pretty much my Bhutan trip! There are still so many things I could go on about - like their food, interesting airport, road signs, road etiquette (no seat belts needed! 50km/h driving only), people, traditions, culture, prohibitions (no smoking, no drugs) but it'll simply take many many more days for me to complete this post.

I hope however, that the essence of it is captured here and you can feel how I felt while I was on this trip. I've taken away lessons from this adventure, and I will always remember what a memorable experience this was. It's going to be difficult for me to rev my engines and go back to my hectic life again.

Only 9 days there, but Bhutan has already changed me in the most subtlest and gentlest of ways. One day, I'll be back again~

Thank you Bhutan, it's one trip my dad and I will never ever forget.


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